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SATURDAY, 19 NOVEMBER 2022

Status Report on Meeting Free Friday

The policy was announced on a Tuesday. By Thursday, one standing meeting had been reclassified as a check-in.

3 MIN READboundary performance

The policy was stated on a Tuesday: Fridays would now be meeting-free. The statement was made internally, to a calendar, which was blocked in forty-minute segments labeled "Focus Time." A Slack message was also sent to immediate colleagues. The tone was collegial. The expectation was implicit.

The response was supportive. Everyone agreed that protected focus time was valuable.

The eleven o'clock recurring meeting had already existed for four months.

The First Finding

By Wednesday evening the subject had identified the eleven o'clock meeting as a structural exception rather than a violation. The meeting had been on the calendar before the policy. The policy applied to new meetings. The eleven o'clock was therefore grandfathered.

The boundary is meant to reduce obligation, yet maintaining the boundary becomes a new obligation. The subject is now managing the distinction between meetings that existed before the boundary and meetings that arose after it. This distinction requires ongoing documentation to be defensible.

The Second Finding

After repetition, other people begin adjusting their behavior around meeting free friday. Two direct reports have stopped proposing Friday slots. One colleague moved a recurring sync from Friday to Thursday with no explanation. The subject noticed this and felt, briefly, that the policy was working.

The subject then attended the eleven o'clock.

The Third Finding

Meeting free friday acquires an unwritten enforcement system that everyone denies creating. The eleven o'clock is now referred to as a check-in rather than a meeting, by all attendees, in all communications. Nobody proposed this reclassification. It resolved the contradiction between the policy and the calendar entry without requiring anyone to acknowledge that a contradiction existed.

A limit counts as successful only if the person enforcing it can prove they still care about everyone affected. The subject has provided this proof through the continued attendance of the eleven o'clock, which is now a check-in, which is different, which everyone understands without explaining.

The Absurd Rule

A boundary states when the policy applies. Whether any given item falls within that scope is determined after the boundary is announced, case by case, by the person who announced the boundary.

Current Status

There are no meetings on Friday. The check-in runs from eleven to eleven forty-five, as scheduled, as it always has. The subject's calendar shows Friday as protected focus time with one check-in, which is not a meeting, and four Focus Time blocks surrounding it.

Progress is consistent with preliminary findings. The investigation continues.

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