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WEDNESDAY, 2 FEBRUARY 2022

Provisional Order on Festival Greeting Duplicate

The festival greeting duplicate has been received, cross-referenced, and forwarded without action.

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The image arrived three times before 8am. Same file. Different senders. All of them in the same family WhatsApp group, which meant all of them had already seen it forwarded from the original source forty minutes earlier.

Nobody mentioned the duplication. That would have been rude. So the image was acknowledged three times and the duplicates were noted privately.

This is standard procedure by 2022. The family group has a rhythm. Festival occasions produce image traffic at a volume that the network was not designed to handle, and certainly the relationships were not designed to process. Someone finds the image. Someone forwards it. The image travels down two or three chains simultaneously, arrives at the same destination in multiple copies, and receives separate acknowledgments for each copy because treating them as the same message would imply that the sender's effort did not matter.

The effort, of course, was pressing forward. But effort is effort.

What the festival greeting duplicate reveals is a small and persistent anxiety about maintenance. The message is not really about the festival. The festival is a pretext. The message is about the relationship: I have not called. I have not visited. I have not found a way to close the distance that accumulated across two disrupted years. But I have sent this image. The image counts. It keeps the account from going further negative.

The recipient knows this. The recipient also participates in the same economy. Both parties understand that the image is a placeholder. Both parties treat it as more than that in order to keep things running.

By the time inflation was reordering household budgets and the return-to-office was reordering commute logistics, the maintenance costs of relationship upkeep were being paid in image traffic. The WhatsApp group held the receipts.

The provisional order holds. Each new festival will generate its image. Each image will arrive in duplicate. Each duplicate will be acknowledged. The system works exactly as well as it needs to, which is to say it keeps things from getting worse rather than making them better.

That is the target outcome. Nobody set that target deliberately. It arrived through repeated behavior, the same way most governance does.

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